so after a bit of research, I settled on some gloves made by Artisan Griller. Purchased on amazon here. I like that they are rubber so I don't have to worry about cloth gloves getting gunked up. They are easy to wash, I just keep the gloves on and wash my hands with soap and water.
The fingers are a little stiff and a little difficult to operate tongs, but overall have great dexterity. I like that the sleeve goes up my forearm quite a bit. When I am grilling at high temps, the heat definitely still radiates through the gloves but I feel like I am protected against accidental bumps into the grates.
The made in USA tag was a plus for me.