Truth is that many of the "famous" NC Que joints have gone down hill. Unfortunatly, many newcomers to the state think that bland, dry pork 'mush' splashed with a little vinagar is the 'Real McCoy'. Its nothing more then poor quality fast food.
Other then smoking my own, I find the best NC BBQ off the beaten path at local church and civic fund raising events. Dedicated Pitmasters that serve slow smoked butts and/or Whole Hog 'Pig Pickins' the traditional way.