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we should not expect, nor desire, nor require, a tip, ever.
Now here is a view point from a guy who is not quite there yet, but is working toward a catering business. I have been a server at events before, and more importantly I have been the caterer's customer.
I agree to a point. If the event is run soley by the proprietor then a tip is very much appreciated, but not required or asked for. After all one sets a price that suits him/ her to begin with.
However, if you hire some servers who dress, behave, and serve appropriately (and these types should be the only ones to work for you.)then I think it is not "cheesy" to ask for and show on the contract a line item for gratuity. After all, if you took your group to a sit down restaurant, you'd automatically pay a tip. The bigger, high scale and hotel restaurants often add it on to the bill whether you like it or not.
Some people are just tight. Given the chance, they will make something up to b*!ch about just so they dont have to leave a tip for your help, even if superb service was rendered. Why let them get away with it. If you cant afford the bill, dont sign on the dotted line!
On the other hand, if I found out the proprieter was taking a cut of the tips from people he/ she is paying a lousy $5.00- $6.00 an hour to, I'd be highly pi%*ed.
Just a consumer's (for the time being) viewpoint.