Hey Oscar, Haven't heard from you (but I'm hearing a lot about your Cornhuskers).
I know you've got some young ones who don't like the spicy stuff. Try the second one, my family/friend REALLY like it (can't make enough of it usually). I would call it a little more "complex" and "savory".
Here are the two I use the most:
Smokin Okies Vinegar Mop for Pulled Pork(I would call this an Eastern Carolina Sauce)
- 2 cups cider vinegar
- 1/2 cup brown sugar (packed)
- 2 tablespoons salt (I like the flavor in Kosher/Sea Salt and bigger granules)
- 2 tablespoon red pepper (crushed)
- 1 teaspoon cayenne (I've also used Hungarian Paprika)
Use this as a mop and you can leave the pepper out if you don't want heat (but 2 TB doesn't give ANY heat.
Smokin Okie's Pulled Pork Baste & Serving Sauce(makes about 5 cups)
- 4 cups apple juice
- 1/2 cup Worcestershire sauce
- 4 tablespoons cider vinegar
- 2 tablespoon dry mustard
- 4 tablespoon brown sugar
- 3 bay leaf
- 6 cloves of garlic
- 2 teaspoon ground ginger
- 1 teaspoon cayenne (I sometimes use Hungarian Paprika)
- 1/2 teaspoon ground cloves (the secret ingredient)
Heat all of the ingredients in a nonreactive pan (the acid in the vinegar will react with some pans be careful) Bring it to a boil, reduce and simmer for 15 min.